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ok theres a friend of mine and we used to like eachother but not anymore and .. recently i guess towards him i was a bitch and i was acting bitchy or something so now he won't talk to me we used to get along fine and we used to be like good friends i guess? but we dont know eachother a whole lot we've known eachother since last summer and used to like eachother but dont see eachother often. and for some reason i just can't let it go that he doesn't want to be my friend anymore he says that im a bitch and all this other stuff and i really want him back as a friend but his friends tell me that he is sayin he doesn't want to try to be my friend becasue im a bitch but i want to show him i've changed and hes not the person you can sit down and talk to you jsut have to show him in other ways? is there any other way i can show him i've changed? and get him back
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First, you should try and do little things to show him that you've changed. Like when you see him in the hallway at school or something, smile at him or wave to him, or if you don't see him at school, try calling him and just making small talk. If he won't even let you have a chance to show him that you've changed, then he can't really be such a great friend. hope that helps xoxo good luck
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WEll do nioce things aroungd other people and try to talk to him and tel him your not that and tell him youve changed
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Some guys will call girls a "bitch", because they are too immature for them. Think about when you guys were friends, did YOU think you were a bitch? Answer yourself honestly, don't say yes because he said so, think hard. If you were, then you should goup to him and say, "hey, I know we aren't friends anymore, but I'm really sorry for the way I acted towards you, and I miss that connection we had, and it sucks that I had to ruin it." Now, you said he wasn't the "lets sit down and talk about this" guy, and thats ok, you can write him a note, phone him, or just say it to his face and walk away. He may take you back as a friend maybe after thinking it over. If you know that you were not a bitch, then he needs to get over himself, you don't owe him an apology or anything if that turns out to be the case. I guess another way to just "show it", is to maybe have your friends just hang out with him and maybe have them tell him how nice you are to people. If he doesn't take you back as a friend, then thats too bad I guess, but if he can't forgive you, thats his loss, remember that.
-TheTeenGirl
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sorry, personalities don't change.
looks like its not going to happen.
-hitler
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