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recently a friend of mine had told me she had a secret, unfortuatly she cant tell me and i respect that but when other girls act weird around me it makes me feel down , how can i ask them to stop acting weird and not think about the secret 24/7
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Asking them straight out to shut up about this secret might not be the best bet. Just do something as a group that will take your mind off this "secret". I think its really great though that you've accepted that your friend can't tell you this secret, and i think you deserve some respect yourself for that. If the distracting idea doesn't work, you can just be polite about it with something like "Look, i know this secret doesn't concern me, but can we not just forget about it and think/talk about something else? lets just do something else, its getting kinda boring now." Its your choice what you say, but this secret isn't the be all and end all of life at school. But well done for respecting your friends secrecy - thats rare!
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