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Dear brittany,
I have a huge problem with how much iv lied in the past. I mean i started and then they just grew and i dont know how to fix it. Evn my BFF's think things about me that iv told them that are 100% not true. How can i tell them its all a lie without loosing their respect?
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okay well i think i can help. if youve been lying because youve been going through a hard time then just tell them, if youve been lying because you just were connected to doing it then lets talk. okay well i think if you are comming here to ask me how to still have the respect for your friends then you have to, and i mean HAVE TO stop the lying. i mean it you must stop lying. if you dont then you will never gain anyones respect or trust. but for this situation you have to stop lying and tell them. what i would do is i would instant message them telling them that i have something important to say, i would say no matter what i still want to be friends with them. then id tell them that i have been lying a lot to them and that i swear on my life that i will never do it again. but u cant just swear to them youll never do it again you have to swear to urself that you will stop lying. they may seem very mad or surprise but tell them how sorry you are. make a promise to them, if you tell ONE more lie then they dont have to talk to you, it will help keep you from lying and it will help them respect you more. if they block you on AIM then call them it will be easier and you can get out how upset and sorry you are, they will be able to tell in the tone of your voice.if you need more help come back and ask, i hope everything works out for you.
Sincerly Brittany
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