Okay so heres what it is.. i used to be really close with these 4 girls (1).. then i kind of stopped like being with them cause they all did stuff together and like i dont know i didnt do that stuff then i started to become good friends with these other 4 girls(2) and we started to become really close i thought like they were my best friends. then we got in the most stupid fight about nothing and now like nothing has been the same. and i've gone back to sitting with the first 4 girls (1) and like im fine and stuff but like they all hang out together but like they dont invite anybody else including me.. and the other girls (2) like i don't know i've stopped sitting with them and stuff and now i dont know i want to be friends with them again but i i feel like if i leave these other girls then they'll get really mad at me again or like wont want to be friends at all. and i don't know i mean i have this one really good friend that isnt in either of the groups but like now shes getting these new friends from other schools and shes with them so now im like by myself.... and i have other friends but they usually hang out and i dont want to impose or anything. and i don't know i feel like i kind of hve no friends and i dont know if i should try to become friends with the 4 girls (2) again or if i should just find new friends completely. but like if i find new friends i dont know like what im supposed to do.. like i guess you could say im not really good with "befriending" new people.. i have no clue what to do and like for the past month on the weekends i've been doing nothing and i've gotten so upset becuase i've lost like all of my best friends..
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? oneandonly345 answered Saturday April 9 2005, 6:40 pm: okayy. i think i got your question.. you were friends with 1, and then you became new friends with 2. then you got into a fight and went back to being friends with 1. but they always do things and dont invite you, and you want to become friends with 2 again, but you feel if you leave 1, they will get mad. and you still want to be their friends. and your friend that wasn't in either of the groups has new friends,and your alone on the weekends and stuff.
okay. i would just talk to group one and two and be like . guys i feel like you all have a better friend ship, and im not in it. and see what they say, they might start including you more. and maybe you should become friends with other people. like maybe talk to some other people durning class and make a new friend ship. or try to be friends with other people at diff. schools.
i dont know. im sorry if this answer is confusing. your question was a little too.
if you want, you can ask me again, but make it a little easyer?
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