Hi.im a 14 year old male and ive known this girl for ages over msn messenger but ive never actually met her. ive seen her on webcam and i really like her. we share intrests and always talk online. i would like to meet her befor asking her out but when it comes to meting girls i get embaressed and shy and wont talk very much. im not sure if she has a boyfriend. recently tho she has not answerd my txts and does not answer me online. im not sure if she just has no credit and her computer is playing up or if she is ignoring me. i also get shy and dont talk much on the phone either. also i dont really know how to tell if she likes me when i do meet her. what should i do!!! (sorry its a bit long)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? tweetysweetyangelLeLe answered Saturday April 9 2005, 5:45 pm: You should take that chance. You will never know if she likes you unless you talk to her and see how well you two get along and how comfortable and relaxed you are in person. There is no point in ever going out with someone if you are just going to sit there and be silent the entire time. And as far as you being shy, don't sweat it. When you meet her in person you should be able to chat like you would online. Maybe compliment her and get along like this isn't the first time meeting. But also remember to be careful and not to just jump into meeting someone online, it could be a setup so have somone there with you until you know it's safe (have them just be parked where they can see or they could sit near enough to be able to get you in a second out of a bad situaiton. Don't worry though because not all girls are into the loud obnoxious guys but rather prefer them quiet and not ready to tell and say whatever on the first meeting. Good Luck! Oh and don't stress her not answering you online, it could be that she's groundedor someone else is using the computer. [ tweetysweetyangelLeLe's advice column | Ask tweetysweetyangelLeLe A Question ]
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