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ok i have these two really close friends ( dayna and alyssa ) anyway, i thought i was close to both of them but alyssa always tells me stuff that dayna says about me n when i talk to alyssa she always says how much she hates her n stuff but when i'm on the phone or somthin with alyssa and dayna calls her she'll get off the phone with me to talk to her, it just gets me really mad that she'd rather talk to someone she hates then someone she likes and also if dayna has a problem with me tell me to my face dont talk about me, what should i do about them?
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I think Alyssa might just be trying to stir stuff up between you and Dayna so she can have you (or Dayna) to herself. I mean, all this stuff she's saying Dayna says about you - when she's on the phone to Dayna instead of you, she could be telling Dayna that you are saying the exact same stuff.
I think you should talk to Dayna in private and ask if she has said anything about you to Alyssa. You could just be like, 'hey, I had a pretty interesting convo with Alyssa yesterday, about stuff certain people have been saying about me' and see how she reacts. If she has been saying the stuff, then you need to ask her why and what's going on. Say it's OK for her to have issues with you but you'd rather she told it to your face so you two can sort them out. If she hasn't, then you all need to talk to Alyssa and find out what's going on.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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