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i'm sad
ok...i have this boyfrind right? Anyway, i love him a whole lot n i know he loves me too but...this summer he might be moving to philly n i probly wont be able to see him a lot, he's not sure yet if he is n i just donno what to do, i know its not really a question but i just wanna know if u have any ideas bout how to deal with his moving if he does, it would really help.
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Hi,
If he does move and you two break up (because it would probably be too hard to keep the relationship going over that distance), then it's obviously going to hurt a lot. The first thing you can do right now is make sure that you guys have as good a time as possible together while you can. When he moves away (assuming that he does), you've got to realise that it's OK to be upset. I know this sounds harsh but I would advise not having any contact with him, at least for a couple of weeks, after he moves. It will be too hard for you to have this little bit of contact with him but not be able to see him properly - it'll stop you moving on. And as for him, it'd be too hard for him to settle down in a new place if he's constantly thinking of you back home. It would probably be a good idea if you two broke up a little before he moved - like a week or two - and were just friends, so that you have a while to get used to the idea. However, if yuo don't want to do that and want to make the mostof every last minute you have together as a couple, then that would be fine too - do whatever you think is best.
Whenever you break up, it's gonna take you a while to get over. The best thing you can do is get out there with your friends and have some fun! Just try and do stuff to keep your mind off him, and when you do think about him again, remember that it's OK to be sad and cry and let it out - it's better than bottling stuff up! Your friends will understand and be there for you.
Leave it until you are certain that you are ready before you have another boyfriend, just to make sure that you're not on the rebound or just looking for someone to fill your ex's space.
There is, unfortunately, no magic cure for getting over somebody. You've just gotta let time work it's magic.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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