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Question Posted Friday April 1 2005, 2:40 pm

Wow, you're hot! Its Victoria (jokerzgrl) and I wanted to ask you a serious question, but...DAMN! Anyways, I'll stop being immature and get on with my question.
Remember a while back, I told you about that guy I'm really into, his name is Sean? Well, yeah me and him still talk and everything,but int he past month...Things have been dramatic. I moved in with a friend from Detroit to this squeeky clean suburb, my mom is no longer my legal guardian, because shes too ill to take of me, and my older brother...well, he doesn't want to talk to me anymore, I think. And well...even though I'm not a Christian, I came up with this grand idea of fasting for 40 days and 40 nights from Sean. not that I'm a stalker or anything, I just want to lear a sense of self-control before I start dating. My friend Daniel is proud of me, and thinks every girl should do it. But theres only one glitch in my plan. Whenever I get upset, I got to Sean. And lately, I've been really upset. My friends mom is going to put me into counseling, I keep having emotional breakdowns and I'm severely depressed to the point where I won't eat and won't go outside. I know what I should do, call Sean, because hes the pereson I can relate to the most, but what I most is someones input...I've been fasting for about 22 days so far, and things have been going well, I'm more than half-way there, I know it sounds extremely odd, but there are also other reasons why I decided to take on this silly fast, one of them being that Sean is a college student, so I'm not always able to get in touch with him, so it would be something I could get used to and comfortable with. Sorry, this is long, but...I know you'll throw in some humor with your answer, and at this point, thats what I need.
MAd Love,
Victoria


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storageanddisposal answered Friday April 1 2005, 3:02 pm:
Wow, you got hot from that? I took that picture after half a week of not shaving/bathing.

Emotional breakdowns and severely depressed to the point where you won't eat and won't go outside? I know exactly how that is. What you should do is get outside. Especially since you don't feel like it. Locking yourself away from the outside world will only give you an excuse to dwell on your problems.

As for the "fasting", I'm not sure the reasons for continuing it outweigh reasons you may have for breaking it. You're going through a tough time right now, it's only human to seek contact with someone you can relate to. The fact that you would even consider continuing this when you really need him shows a lot of self control, in my opinion.

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