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ok.. right now i have a very small quantity of friendds... and my one BEST BEST BEST friend... well she's friends with my boyfriend and they're both on the same bus... so they spend a lot of time together... but i don't see my boyfriend as much as she gets to and yea im jealous of that because they are really tight... so she walks with me and him into school and thats like the only time i get to see him... and i never get to spend time alone with him in person cauz she's always there... and she knows i don't like that she always has to be there cauz ive talked to her about it... so now i wait for him at his locker in between 8th period and 9th period but only every other day cauz of my schedule.. and my friend got mad that i wasn't gonna wait with her anymore and i explained to her that i never really get to see him and i really wanna see him and she was like "so!!! i want you to wait with me!" but i said no! so today i was waiting at his locker and he came over and then my friend was right behind him... and she's like "Whats up?" and i got sooo upset because she always has to be there... and when some reason... when she's around i get really shy in front of my boyfriend and i don't say much and i don't know why... so she walked with us in the halls and he was barley talking to me... because me and him are both REALLY shy and since we don't get to see eachother alot... its hard for us to have a good conversation in person... but online... we talk for hours... so i got really upset and wouldn't talk to anyone for the rest of the day and i wanna talk to her about it... but i don't want her to get all upset because i value my time with my boyfriend since its very limited and i don't want her wasting it!!! im just sooo furious... please help... sorry its sooo long
p.s. i don't hang out with my boyfriend outside of school cauz he's one year younger than me (he;s in 6th grade and im in 7th) and his parents won't let him.
also, my friend said that the first time i have my boyfriend over my house i have to invite her cauz she wants to be there... and i told her i can't make any promises.
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i am sorry i have a similar problem. try to talk to your friend about it again and if that dosen't work try to talk to your bf about it when you can.
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Tell your friend again that you are fine with her being there sometimes, but sometimes you want to see him on your own. If she is a worthwhile friend she should understand that.
If that doesn't work, tell your bf the same thing. Tell him you want to see just him sometimes and you are fine with him hanging out with your friend as well, just not all the time. Again, if he is smart, he will understand that also and maybe he can speak to her. She might push her relation ship with you a little but wont if both you and your bf are giving her the same message.
She is probably just feeling left out if you meet alone so be nice about it. She can't help it if she gets jealous sometimes either.
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It's kind of hard to have boyfriends at your age.This is a perfect example of why!
First, don't be jealous of your friends being friends. If he wanted her he had plenty of time to ask her before you right? He didn't he picked you.
second,about the only places non drivers can go are school and home. Friends are everywhere. So, unless you have him to your place for dinner or something (no girlfriends allowed) you probably won't get much alone time. Invite him, not her.Tell her you want him to yourself for a change.
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your best best friend needs to get a life girl!! maybe shes just jelous that you have a Boyfriend and she dosent!! you should try to talk to her! its NOT fair for you and your boyfirend! and if you hav to just dont be her friend anymore if you want your bofriend more then her!!
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I think that you should ask your best friend if she likes your boy friend. And you should also have more confidence in yourself be more out going then you will have alot more friends.
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