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well..i have sum problems with me and my boyfriend..i mean i like him in all but its just he does not like things i do..like i love to cuddle n all and he is not like that..he is kinda a bratty kid 9not in a mean way) i mean i love him to death but i just dun't kno what to do..i kno of a couple of guys who like me and they have morew things in common with me then me and my bf but the thing is i dun't kno them therefore i DUN"t love them but i love my bf
So can you please help me
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Okay, first off, have you talked to him about how you're feeling right now? If he doesn't know, he can't compromise.
Also, keep in mind that you don't HAVE to be in a relationship. If you're not happy with this guy, get rid of him.
I'm not telling you to end it, just reminding you. A lot of people think that once they have a boyfriend they have to stick with him. You're probably young - I'm guessing fifteen? - you've got lots of time. To quote my character, "if not him, it'll be somebody else."
Anyway. Before you do or think about ANYTHING else, you've gotta talk to him. Relationships are ALL about communication. Talk to him about the fact that you like him and all, but he doesn't seem to like the things you do, and use cuddling as an example.
Just because guys have more in common with you doesn't mean they'd be better boyfriends.
The guy I'm dating right now is a videogame freak, an ex-wrestler, a computer geek, and used to play the saxophone. I'm a singer, I suck at videogames, I play flute/picc and piano, and know nothing about computers. The guy I dated before him was a singer, played the oboe and piano, and knew everything about computers, but he broke it off after 2 months. I've been with this guy for 16.
See what I mean? Opposites sometimes really do attract. You've just gotta talk out your differences. COMMUNICATION IS KEY!!
I hope this helped - if it didn't, you want different/better/more advice, or you talk and nothing happens, don't hesitate to talk to me again. I'm always willing to try harder. You can talk to me on AIM, too (SirenCytherea)
-Siren =)
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