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alright...ive been friends with this boy whos my neighbor since ive met him, which was when i was around 8. im now 14 and ive liked him since i met him. i asked him out last year and he said he just wanted to be friends, but i cant get over him. i recently went out with a really nice guy, but broke up with him after 2 weeks because i still cant get over this other guy. im not his type or anything so i no we would never work, but ever since i asked him out, a year ago, i have cut and OD'd on pain killers. i stopped with the pain killers after about a month, but still cut. now one of my real good friends found out and is mad at me for doing it so i said id stop. well that was about 2 days ago and i havnt done it but now im doing pills again. i just feel like i need to talk to him and tell him everything but i have no clue how to because for the past year weve grown farther apart. please dont tell me to stop doing drugs cuz i dont need to hear that anymore, i just need to no how to talk to my friend. thanks so much!
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I feel that if you tell this boy what you have been doing he will grow farther apart from you and become scared to get close. He would be scared of the fact that hes the reason your doing this stuff. So I think its a bad idea to tell him, because then you'll wanna hurt yourself more when you see his reaction. You dont have to listen to me but thats what I think would be best. Right now the best thing you should do is get help for yourself. I know you probabaly didnt want to hear this but i dont want to see you get hurt. You need to talk to someone, call a teen-help hotline, anything ..to make yourself better. This guy shouldent be the reason why you cut and OD. I bet there is plenty of other guys that are better than him and will like you. If you think I'm crazy, I'm not. See you werent meant to be so you need to find your true love..the person you were meant to be with! Sorry if I didnt help much, update me if you can !
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