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Email Password = Hidden Love Life
So there's this guy I like who likes me back.. the only reason we're not going out is because he lives in another city really far away. But its sort of understood that we have this thing going on. Anyway.. he's always talking about how hard it is for him to communicate openly with girls considering he doesnt have many female friends... ha yeah right. I just so happened to have guessed his email password (wrong I know.. but I have it and now I cant just not have it anymore!) and he has a ton of emails from all sorts of girls. There are "xoxo"'s and "love so and so"'s everywhere!!! I know Im not technically supposed to be mad considering Im not supposed to have been in there anyway.. but I cant help it. Is there anyway I can confront him about the girls.. ask him if there's someone else.. without him knowing I went in his email? Or should I shake it off and leave him and his email alone?
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Oooh that's a pickle...
Well, you have to keep in mind that you guys may have chemistry, but you AREN'T going out. So really, he's still fair game for other girls. And maybe he DOESN'T have many female friends that are JUST friends, but maybe he has lots of girls that are interested in him as a boyfriend.
So really, there isn't exactly a way to confront him about it, because he hasn't done anything horribly wrong, other than lead you on a little bit, which is pretty natural for both guys and girls to do. And maybe he DOES like you, but like you said, you guys live too far away to have anything really serious. So it's only natural for him to be talking to other girls.
What I would do is try your hardest to not snoop around anymore. But since you can't erase what you've already seen, just keep in mind that you're NOT the only girl in his life right now, and don't get too caught up over him, as sucky as that is.
Maybe you could talk to a few other guys yourself and get some of your own "XOXO" "love so and so" emails, if you're up for that.
Or just keep being yourself and be there for him like you always have been. Maybe someday things can work out where you can see each other a lot and you can be the ONLY girl in his life.
Good luck. I hope I helped. :) ♥
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