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As a guy maybe you will be able to help me. Me and my fiance have been together for going on 3 and half years, that was until Wednesday. We have now split, because I ask him to show me that he loves me more often, because I ask this he blames me for "cussing" at him to much. I know that it is hard for him sometimes to show me this but it is something that I feel that I need, even though I am pretty sure that he does love me. i have never cheated on him or anything to hurt him, he means more than life to me, and will give it all that I have to make sure that he is happy. This is not the first time that we have seperated, and after a few days and does eventually return but this time, my heart is not so sure. Can you tell me from a guys ppoint of view what you think will happen to my bf and I. Will you also give me advice on what to do to make sure that this never happens again??
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Oh LORD. I don't know if I can help you much but I'll try. Honestly, if I were him, I'd probably come back. I seriously think he's gonna come back. Just give it time, he needs time to think everything over. Three and a half years? That's great babe. Its hard for us guys to show a girl we love them, you have to understand, guys are completely different then girls. And you, you cuss at him? Lol, I don't think its serious, is it? I mean, I doubt you do it everyday, or do you? Lol. How many times have you been seperated? Because I think if this is happening on and off, honetly, I don't want to say this, but maybe, just maybe, he isn't the one for you. Maybe GOD wants you to find someone new and maybe you SHOULDN'T get back togther. That's just a theory. Or maybe its a test of love, if you guys can really handle all the obstacles in life and hard times. If honestly someonee can't handle get bitched by their fiancee then thats trouble. Marriages have LOADS of fights, you have to be prepared for ANYTHING and EVERUYTHINHG. My advice is, overall, if and when he comes back, sit him down and explain everything. Tell him how you feel. Let him know how much you love him, and you can't handle being without him. Hopefully he'll respond back telling you the same, and hopefully everything will go back to normal. Just try to maybe not cuss at him and don't expect much out of us guys. I mean, I'm not saying he shouldn't do simple things to show you he loves you, but don't don't tell him. He should figure it out himself. =) Lol, its hard trust me. But if this keeps happening on and off, then tell him how you feel. Maybe you guys can see a counselar or therapist? Sorry for everything you have to go through, this is NOTHING compared to what's in stock for you when you get martried. But I hope this helped ya. Rate my advice and check out the column! =)
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