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dahfni again
well, he has no problem opening up. he has told me that he definitely is looking for a long term relationship and that he is not looking for a one night stand. we have been together for about 7 months now but his job is the world to him and his promotion is not going to help. i feel selfish. i just am feeling a little skeptical from last convo when he let me go after telling him something intimate. i really care for him but i think i have a feeling something is going on he isn't opening up to me about.
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Dafni,
First of all you have absolutely no reason to feel selfish! You are doing nothing but trying to get the best out of your relationship which is what you deserve!
He needs to prove himself to you about how he really feels and what is really going trough his mind right now. Perhaps he needs to take some time and figure out what he really wants. Because to me with his job it doesn't really sound like he has a lot of time to think about other things. Also, it seems like he doesn't realize what he has with you. He doesn't understand that the way he is treating you by not talking to you about certain things and avoiding conversations is only pushing you further away from him. He might not realize what he has until it's gone which is very unfortunate, but in reality happens to a lot of us.
I personally think that you both need to take some time and decide what you want and need. It's still early in your relationship and it's better that you do this now than later down the road when it could potentially be worse.
Best of luck to you dear ... I hope this advice helps you! Let me know what happens! :)
~ Amanda :)
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