feeling a little tied down w/ my boyfriend now that I am head over heels with another guy
Question Posted Wednesday March 23 2005, 10:33 pm
Okay lately I have been feeling a little tied down w/ my boyfriend....and the funny thing is, is that I was the one who wanted him to want me and he did but now all of a sudden I see him as something else, I feel different for him. Not nessecarily friend but.... Like I just don't think he's boyfriend material...He absolutely HATES calling people so he won't call me to talk or whatever on the days we don't see each other but oh, he'll talk on the phone for hours if someone calls him. So it hurts me and feels like he really doesn't care after all he is like obsessive compulsive of me...he says he loves me soo much and w.e and all that garbage. but I also fell head of heels for this guy that is 1 yr. younger than me and pays more attention to me and has a better personality. I find myself thinking about him more than my boyfriend...I just don't know what to do...Do I break it off with my boyfriend and start a relationship with mr. personality. Or wait things out and see how it goes??
thanks in advance & 4 reading this
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karenR answered Thursday March 24 2005, 2:08 am: Date them both.Tell boyfriend you want to date others as well as him.Your to young to be tied down etc.Be prepared in case he says no dice,but I don't think your ready to settle on just one guy right now. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
mylinhthan answered Thursday March 24 2005, 12:33 am: xoox -
Well, the answer is pretty simple. If you really care for your current boyfriend, make an effort to work it out by talking to him. After that's done, see if he takes your needs seriously. If he does, he's worth it, if not, he's not considerate of you so drop him.
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