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There's this guy I met about a month ago that I am becoming obsessed with. When I met him we discovered that we had the exact same interests and my friends kept telling me to go for it, but I didn't want to make the first move. Nothing happened that night but he seemed a little bit interested in me. Then 2 days later he got my screen name from a friend and we talked a little bit. My friend asked him if he liked me and he said he still needed to get to know me. Then a couple days later he told me he wanted to do something with me that weekend and people who are friends with him kept asking me if I liked him. I thought that meant he liked me. So we didn't end up doing anything until last weekend. So I hung out with him and we completely got along and we had fun. The problem was that he seemed to be more touchy with all of the other girls there than me. I feel a little bit crazy about it, but I really want things to work out with him. So pretty much he keeps saying things to me that make him seem interested and get me excited, but he also says things that make it seem to me like he just wants to be friends. What does it sound like to you, or how can I tell whether or no he likes me?
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I'm sure he likes you. But, I'm not sure what you mean by 'touchy'. Touching as in sexually touuching or kissing? Or tickling other girls to death. But, if its sexually, you need to wait longer, this goes for both options. You need to wait longer, don't rush things, hes waiting for you too, so go with it, don't expect a first kiss on the 5th date. Don't get too caught up in this guy, because you never know, he might backfire on you and just be your friend.
-TheTeenGirl
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he must like you if he asked you out.Maybe he was more touchy with them because he knows them better.Be happy that he gave you siome respect.You really shouldn't get into all that until you know someone a little first.He did good.Hope he asks you out again!
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being a guy, and a "sleezy" one (arent we all), our main objective is really to "slide home". if this guy u met is a lot more touchy with other girls than u, doesnt mean he doesnt like you, it could mean he wants to go slow. if i didnt have interest in you, i wouldnt have invited you to the movies, so obviously he is interested in being a little more than friends. id ask his friends about him and see what he likes in a girl, and try to be that girl for him. once he sees youll do that for him, hell appreciate you more.
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There's only one way to know. You have to confront him. Let him know how you feel and see what he says. Maybe right now he's not ready for a steady girlfriend. You never know until you ask. If you don't find out for sure, you'll just wind up wondering and it'll weigh on your mind more and more. Try to find out how he feels; he may feel the same as you. All in all, this is the best advice that I can provide for you; I hope it helps. Friendly advice from Caleb.
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