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hi tara!
ok so im in the middle of a huge disaster with one of my friends. shes been my best friend for a really long time and we've always gotten in fights but have alwyas got over them. this time it was really bad becuase one of my other friends who absolutely hates me best friend decided she wanted to bitch her out online because my friend thought she was stadning up for me. i couldnt stop my friend from doing it and i really didnt want her to but she did neways and so my best friend got really mad and has been telling me she doesnt want to be friends anymore because of what my other friend did. i hate it becuase i want to stay friends with my best friend more than anything and im trying as hard as i can to fix things but shes so stubborn that she doesnt want to make up and try to make it work. im really frsutrated and i need a way for us to become friends again becuase its really upsetting that were in this huge fight. please help
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yikes. your other best friend who bitched out your best friend online sounds a lot like me. i would do something like that. but, lesson learned the hard way - it's not cool... at all. you need to talk to her and tell her that she was wrong for yelling at your other best friend and while you appreciate her loyalty and sticking up for you, this is a fight you have to deal with on your own. she was wrong, but your other best friend shouldnt just stop being friends with you. i mean, its not like you ASKED your friend to yell at her, and its definitely not like you wanted anything to happen. tell your friend that your sorry for what she did and that you still want to be friends. tell her you didnt want your friend to mean to her. apologize first and be the better person. if she doesnt accept, then it becomes HER problem. you did what you could and you were willing to make the friendship work again. if she is too proud to see that, then she has issues.
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