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its starting to bug me..


Question Posted Tuesday March 22 2005, 7:05 pm

okay, I am freind this guy who everybodoy loves, he like the star or cleb in school. plus he think he hot, he really sweet and nice. thing is this girl he talk to in class and he knows I like him and other girl that like him, he always flarting with her in front of me and everthing. she always stare at me werid look after he dose.I know i don't seem make since, its my style of writing becouse i am deaf. it i want show that it not borthering me and plus I don't like him that way, i want show i want to be good freind. but sometimes i think reason why i like him becouse everybody esle like him like he a cleb.. he everything Drama, chapen of the basketball team, he msuch of the leader, so hope you guys get it. if not i try to explain better, this all i think of
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gakkuhideto answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 8:26 pm:
Anyway, about your problem. If you don't like him "that way", just be yourself, try to be a good friend. But if he is mean to you (it's kind of mean of him to flirt in front of you, I think), then you probably do only like him because he's popular. There is no reason to be with people like that; be friends with people that like you for who you are and that you like for who they are.

If you want to show that the flirting doesn't bother you, tell that girl that you think she would look so cute with him.

Good luck!

By the way, I'm an American Sign Language student. =)

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TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 8:22 pm:
Well, going for a guy thats popular, just ends up being a crush for average girls but nothing more, so I am hoping that maybe its because hes popular, and you think hes just plain adorable. But, maybe you should go for a guy that isn't the center of attention, because being with popular guys, makes it harder, because guys like him will be in a pattern where talking to all these girls that love him isn't wrong even though it would hurt you. But, it has to be hard for you to be deaf on top of it. But, I am suggest to try to wait, and not take chances, especially since theres another girl hanging on him. But, thats my suggestion, good luck.



-TheTeenGirl

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BurnieMac answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 7:21 pm:
Well, in answer to your question, I really don't think that you have to do anything to show that it doesn't bother you; just go about like normal. I know what you mean by liking someone because everyone else likes them. That's not such a bad thing. I mean if he doesn't do bad things or hurt you or anyone else, then it's ok to like him. He sounds like a popular guy, and that's why a lot of people like him. Don't worry about this too much. I hope I have helped you. Friendly advice from Caleb.

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