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be myself..?
I wrote a prob earlier, because I like this boy but I'm too shy to actually do anything. People said they think he likes me too. They also told me "be yourself". Thing is, I'm <i>really</i> shy + boring, I hardly ever go out (long story.. moved house, new friends bullied me, were really immature and bossed me around every time i went out with them so i stopped). Please can you give me some flirting tips for <u>shy</u> people? Because when he looks at me I look away in case I start blushing and I'm ignoring him even though I like him.. silly thing to do I guess, but I can't help it. Thanks =]
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Hey, I know what you mean about the whole "They tell me to be myself, but the real me doesn't really have a personality (shy/boring)." I'm the same way. But there is something special/interesting about everyone, you just have to find it. It could be something you're good at (dancing/acting/sport), or it could be something like you're really sarcastic and funny on the inside, but you're too shy to let it out. Once you find your "good quality" so to speak, you need to overcome your shyness. The best way to do this is by gaining some self confidence. Just try being a little more outgoing with people that you talk to at school. Then when you're ready, talk to the guy when he looks at you. Don't look away. Just start out with, "Hey, what's up?" Just like smalltalk...And it should lead into other topics. Just RELAX...He's just a person like you. And he's NOT judging you. He's probably more worried about what YOU think of HIM. And also, relaxing around people will make you seem less vulnerable, so they won't boss you around and walk all over you so much!!! Good luck, and remember: Just RELAX!!!
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flirting is hard...but after the first time its nothing...just go for it and dont give up...obviously this kid likes u already and if u like him thenu guyz should feel comfortable arround eachother...good luck hun!
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Wat you should do is lyke your friendz said is to be yourself but kinda... how do i put this... at the same time be sum1 different lyke dare yourself to do things you normally were too afraid to do dont be worried about wat they mite think about you juss have fun and if they see your having fun they'll see that your the type of gurl that can have fun and that's a good thing becuz they may start asking you to hang out with them eventually.
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ok, when he looks over @ you, depends on his personality, like wink as in friendly-flirting or smile sweet as in I-LIKE-YOU, see whut happens, it won't hurt n e thing unless he's a real jurk.hope i helped ya!
=)=) luv ya! t-28 old1!
i know the feeling. just, when he looks at you just smile, wave, or say hi and chat. youll be talking soon and might even get close!
=)=) luv ya! t-28 young1
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