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Totally Confused


Question Posted Saturday March 19 2005, 12:34 am

I am 23 yr.old guy & in love to a girl of29 for the past 5 yrs.We never love physically.After a long fight her parents are ready but not mine.I have got 2 sisters,both are elder & one is married.I dont want to marry now as i am not stable now.I am just getting 7000/pm.She is also working.I am the only son of my parents.I dont want to leave my parents.I want my sister to get married before me.But her parents want shurety.My mom hates her.What should i do? I cant leave her and cant leave even my parents.I love both of them. What should i do?

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nameless answered Saturday March 19 2005, 12:40 am:
Marriage is a thing that doesn't concern the parents AT ALL, in my opinion. So fuck that. I think if you're not ready for marriage and she is, just make sure she knows (and understands!) why you're not ready to marry her. Mention the money you make and the issues that come up. Make sure she knows that you love her more than a simple declaration and civil union, I guess. In between all this, try to come to a compromise between your family and hers. Mention Romeo and Juliet, if that helps.

. Tracy

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