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In a way, Carter is hurting you more than Christina is, because he doesn't see how much more this is hurting you, than it is Christina. Because it kinda seems as if Christina is getting a kick outta this.. eh? Is Christina one of those, "My way or the highway" type of people? Because she's comming off as one. If Carter didn't devote 24/7 toward her, she was mad. If you spoke with "Her MAN" then she was mad. I know, I know it hurts to see them together It's like, "Aww look at the cute couples!" But, that's all people see out of it. Try as hard as you can to not let them being together bring you down, because it's putting Christina in control. You don't want her to be in control because then it's almost like blackmail to you. because she could be like, "I don't want you hanging out with Carter, then I'll be your friend, but if you hang out with him, then you'll lose all your friends and I'll hate you." you DO NOT want that happeneing, huh. Is Tami still upset with you? Is Carter still as close with you when this began?
yeah with christina everything has to be her way, and shes always the first person to put someones ideas down. before i go on i have to say that all this stuff is just her bad qualities and she has good ones too, but the bad has just been standing out more latley. im not sure about tami, today in history we laughed and had fun, but im still not sure. i think im going to try talking to her tomorrow. me and carter are still just as close, we get closer like every day. i think it hurts him that he cant share his usual stories (every single thing that goes on with him and his girlfriend) because he knows that it reminds me that she hates me and makes me sad. he knows that though and is really good about it. on monday night i was really really upset about it and we talked about it for like 3 hours and he was like "can you read this font okay? is the size big enough? are the colors okay because i can change the colors? are you sure you can read this typing?" and i was like "yeah" and then he was like "well its going to be OKAY. i promise you." so hes been great. i dont think its so much them being perfect couples that bothers me, but the fact that my so called best friends can just forget me so easily and be happy. tamis locker is right outside my second period class and theyre always there when i walk up to go in and i try to just go in and forget about it, which i do easily because the girls in there are just AWESOMEE, they get my mind off it. but when i walk up and see them its never fun. it sucks though because i see carter turn and see me and start to ecnowledge that im there and i have to just walk in, its too hard. i need to be sure to not ignore him, but if i told him why he wouldnt be mad, just dissapointed that i let them get to me.
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"can you read this font okay? is the size big enough? are the colors okay because i can change the colors? are you sure you can read this typing?" and i was like "yeah" and then he was like "well its going to be OKAY. i promise you." That right there is so sweet and cute! aww! He's adorable! And yeah, he would be dissapointed, you really wouldn't want to dissapoint the only friend who's been there through everything? So try and do this for him, DO NOT let them get to you, because that's what they're trying to do. Obviously Carter knows they're trying to get to you if he'd be dissapointed in you. I tihnk that Tami and Christina are just putting on a show, they might be just as misrible as you, but they're good at covering it up. Unlike you, who is very oopen with your feelings. The last thing you want to do is drop to their level and get upset with them. Keep your cool.
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