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about me seeing him first.. well actually last year i like barley knew him at the beginning of the year, i just knew him because of this kid getting picked on and thrown against the lockers because he didnt speak english well and carter protected him and got into a fight, it was big talk two years ago. but anyway, i didnt really know him but christina liked him at the beginning of last year, right when i was starting to get to know him. well she got like crazy obsessed with him and really mad and insane and she didnt talk to me for like 3 months because she got mad at carter for talking to me. but then i guess she got over it, and they didnt really talk until recently, but only because they were both such good friends with me. so i guess technically she did see him first, but i dont think i should give up just being really close friends with him because shes being stupid. the thing is, i still want to be friends with her. something really hurts me everytday when i see tami,tamis bf and carters best friend, christina, and carter standing together talking, because like a week ago, it would have been me there, not christina. but idk, even through all this i still want to be her friend.
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In a way, Carter is hurting you more than Christina is, because he doesn't see how much more this is hurting you, than it is Christina. Because it kinda seems as if Christina is getting a kick outta this.. eh? Is Christina one of those, "My way or the highway" type of people? Because she's comming off as one. If Carter didn't devote 24/7 toward her, she was mad. If you spoke with "Her MAN" then she was mad. I know, I know it hurts to see them together It's like, "Aww look at the cute couples!" But, that's all people see out of it. Try as hard as you can to not let them being together bring you down, because it's putting Christina in control. You don't want her to be in control because then it's almost like blackmail to you. because she could be like, "I don't want you hanging out with Carter, then I'll be your friend, but if you hang out with him, then you'll lose all your friends and I'll hate you." you DO NOT want that happeneing, huh. Is Tami still upset with you? Is Carter still as close with you when this began?
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