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He is so mysterious!
I have a problem, i like a guy and im really not sure if he likes me back. Some of the advicenators told me he does and some said maybe he's beeing too friendy.When we're around our friends, we always glance at each other and our eyes meet sometimes but we look away.
Anyway...
Yesterday I was absent so I asked my gf to say hi to him for me.
So he was surprised and asked her if I were sick and she said I was. She said he thought for a moment and then thanked her.
So, does this mean he's concerned? My other friends were surprised too, so does this mean he cares about me?
Today, I went to school cause I was feeling better.
First time we ran into each other, he was with a friend of his, so he said "Whats up?" without even looking me in the eye, just as he walked.
So I said "hey", like a cheerful hey with a lot of happiness in it, but not a "hey!" like a cheerleader,lol.
The second time, as he walked, he looked at me and said "hey Sarah, I heard you were sick, how are you?"
me:" im fine, thanks for asking, you're so sweet" (is it wrong to say to a guy "you're so sweet"???)
Why couldn't he stop and ask that question, why is he always walking?!
I'm trying to make him jealous in all ways possible, talked to a few guys here and there.
He's very mysterious, and it's hurting me because I don't understand him! I become dumb around him, so does he become dumb around me too? Is that why hes so calm sometimes?
I would really really appreciate your help, you seem to have some experience in this domain and that's why I asked for your help :)
Oh, by the way, I like interpreting dreams too,lol.
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That's so cool that you like interpreting dreams too...I love to advise people who don't think I'm a total nutcase...I'm glad you asked me! I'll see what I can think of...hmm...
His thinking for a moment, then thanking her could definitely mean he's concerned. He probably does care about you if he's concerned, but I don't pretend to be able to read guys like a book, so don't hold me to that...
That's interesting that he said "What's up" while with his friend, possibly in the middle of a conversation? If not, still, it's interesting.
It shows that he cares because he REMEMBERED you were sick, and asked how you were.
No, it's definitely not wrong to say "you're so sweet" to a guy. I say that to all my guy friends...but then, I'm a touchy-feely kinda girl.
So he did look you in the eye the second time? As for the not stopping and walking on, he may have been in a hurry, but wanted to take the time to talk to you and let you know that he heard about your illness. He may also just not have realized that he should stop. I mean, sometimes I'll say stuff to a person and I'll keep walking away when they're trying to talk to me 'cause I don't realize they're still trying to talk...
Don't be dumb if you can help it, and I wouldn't try to make him jealous. Honestly, unless he's your ex boyfriend, I'm not sure that will get you anywhere. He might think you're not interested and move on. Oftentimes, guys don't go after girls if they look like they're interested in someone else.
As far as him being calm sometimes...I really couldn't tell you. Guys do work in mysterious ways. He might be just as confused as you are, you know, but not showing it, or showing it differently.
I hope this helps - if you want clarification or something new happens and (providing you like my advice) you want someone to help you figure it out, feel free to talk to me here, on on AIM (SirenCytherea). I'm on almost every night.
-Siren =)
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