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there this girl i think she like me were friends a little. but as i am shy not very talkive 14 year old guy. i want to ask her out but i have no idea what to say or what to do. i to talk to for a little bit oftenly just small chat. how can i bring the idea up of me liking her and asking her out. PLZ HELP!!!
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Well if she is a girl then I'm sure she would love to be complemented on her clothes one day and when you do tell her that clothes look good, say something along the lines of "You always look good to me" in a matter of fact tone. That way you don't sound like you are all of a sudden hitting on her. I would say asking her out will be slow, I think you need to leave some hints for a while before you really ask her out. Especially since you told me your a quiet guy just make it gradual. Then maybe after a week or so of subtle hints perhaps then would be a good time to ask her out. It would probably be smart to choose a good time when neither of you will be interupted. (The worst thing for you when asking a girl is if you get interupted and you have built up the nerves) Tell her that you have been wanting to ask her this for a while but wasn't sure how to ask her. Tell her that you really like her and would like to go out some time. (Have a day, time and place kinda ready just incase) If she seems hesitant than say maybe another time? Don't be too crushed if she says no. Say something along the lines of "okay, I thought it would fun but if you don't then lets just be friends for now" I know you probably don't just want to be just friends but that maybe the best bet for the time.
Luck!
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