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Question Posted Sunday March 13 2005, 1:18 pm

About 2 months ago I was like in love with this one guy (I'll call him #1). He was pretty much all I could think about all day at school and anywhere I went he was all I could think about. Everytime I talked to him I felt like I was floating. He made me feel so good about myself. He liked me too for a little while. But, then he really started to like this other girl a lot(I'll call her K), and she was so pretty so I decided I would tell everyone that I didn't like him anymore when I was still like in love with him. Then, this other guy came along (I'll call him #2) and he REALLY REALLY liked and still does like me. So I thought I would give him a chance to maybe change me heart. But after a month of going out with #2 I still had the strogest of feelings for #1 so me and #2 broke up a week ago. And now #2 is my best friend, but he still loves me, and I just don't feel the same toward him. Well, now #1 is going out with this one girl (I'll call her S). Then have been going out for about 3 or 4 weeks now. Well Friday night I saw and talked to #1 a lot, and it was just like all my feelings were there with him all over again. Yesterday #1 told me that he still liked me even tho he is going out with S. I asked him why is he still going out with S, but he said he hates breaking up, and he in kinda known for short relationships at his school. He said he likes me a lot, and at first I didn't believe him, but he is not the kind of guy who would ever joke about stuff like that. Well #1 is still going out with S and I think I'm falling for #1 all over again. I don't know what to do. I meen I don't want to tell him how I feel, but then again I do. I don't want everyone to think I am bad if #1 and S break up.. What do I do?

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sbeth090 answered Monday March 14 2005, 3:52 pm:
lol.. that was a really well put story.. lol.. but anyways.. tell the guy how ya feel! for one it will make you feel a little better about all this and two it might help the situation out a little.. i mean if he likes you more then he likes "S" then he needs to go for you.. cuz for one thats hurting "S" and two he needs to go for who he likes more then going for the person he doesnt want to hurt.. and yes if ppl find out that you are the cause of their break up rumors will go around and you will probably have to live through hell for about a week or 2 but just dont let them see that the rumors are hurting you any.. and once they see that the rumors are doing nothin they will stop.. but you cant control who you like so just tell him how you feel and after that all you can do is hope for the best.. hope my advice helped a little.. good luck!

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