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my friend is all mad at me n i dont kno what i did . she left me all knids of messages on the computer. shes a really good friend n i dont want us to get even worse n not talk to each other. i need ur help!!
Sad and worried
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well.. think about it. could you possibly have said or done anything to make her upset? even if it wasnt intended? you may have said something without realizing you upset your friend. if thats the case, ask her what you said or did, and apologize. tell her you didnt realize you had upset her. what kind of messages is she leaving? are they mean messages? do they tell you what you did wrong and why EXACTLY she is mad/ if not, then she is miscommunicating also. ask her why she is mad. let her know that she needs to tell you up front WHAT is making her mad so that you can work it out. her method is slighty immature. let her know that she can come to you if she is ever upset or angry. it's much easier when you work it out without jumping to conclusions and becoming angry first. and its much easier to keep a friendship. ive been in similar situations and ive learned that talking it out is MUCH better than negative confrontation. it gets you nowhere. good luck with your friend.
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