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hey ok my bff is really cool and funny and awesome and i love her like a sister!! but sometimes she's sort of weird in a way, like i don't know it's really hard to explain.. for example whenever i talk about going on a vacation somewhere, if it's somewhere she's already been to, she says that she hated it there. and then wherever she's going on a vacation, she's all "OMG I'M SO EXCITED!!" unless it's a place she already told me that it sucks. and she goes to japan a lot because she's japanese and she's always talking about how awesome it is there-i've been there before and it is awesome but it's not exactly the best vacation spot ever though... but it's just weird. and then once i started talking about something i read in M magazine and then she said that she hated M, when it was her who first showed it to me anyway!! and at abercrombie, there was this really ugly skirt and i was like "eww that's ugly!" lol but then she started saying that she really liked it and actually started looking at the cost and was about to buy it (but she ran out of money)!! and all of my favorite songs of all time that i really really love, she doesn't like any of them, even though i heard from someone at her school that she sings them a lot (we go to different schools). i don't know, it's like she's always trying to be different, but as if she's wants to fight or something. i just don't get it, why would she want to be like that? there have definitely been a lot more times she's done that but i don't want to put them down because there's too many. but it's weirds me out sometimes and actually annoys me too because i don't understand what she's trying to start or prove!? can you please help me?
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Dear Confuzzled,
The first thought that went through my mind after reading your problem was immature. It is obvious to me that the two of you are either very young or very immature. Why are you friends? Really, think about it. Why? You must find something great within each other to be friends. Right? Get over it. Move on. Vacation spots? Big deal. You think it's great to go to Hawaii? Then go to Hawaii and have fun. Your friends comments shouldn't mean anything if they are negative. Confront her comments and ask why she is hostile towards your taste in things. You may discover the secret behind her words. Good luck.
♥Sarah and Brandon
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