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Um.. yeah. I've been dating this guy for a little over 4 months now, and I'm totally in love with him. The only bad thing is ... I like one of his friends. I've had a crush on him earlier in the year, but I stopped after I found out that he already had a gf. 2 and a half months or so after me and my bf started dating, I started re-crushing on his friend. Me and his friend are almost like best friends. We tell each other anything, and joke around alot about my bf. I kinda don't want neither my my bf NOR his friend to find out about my whole re-crushing thing, but on the other hand I want them to know ...
AND I have pointed out to my bf that the only time he says that he loves me is when we have this make out session... or something goes his way. He says he really does love me with all his heart, but I don't really think that he means it ...
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Hey darling. Well this sounds pretty familiar (=..but anyways...maybe you and your boyfriend need a little time off from each other to make him realize how amazing you really are and how lucky he is to have you and then maybe that's when he'll actually say I love you and mean it! And when he says I love you but can't back it up with a reason, then I wouldn't really believe him either!
But going out with his best friend could get you in major trouble and I think you know that already. But if you really want to go out with his friend, make sure that you really do like him! Because your boyfriend now will get really pissed off..(and he should be!..)..and he may never talk to you ever again! So before hooking up with the other guy, make sure you're willing to risk it ALL! You guys may not ever talk to each other ever again because of this and you may wreck a whole friendship between your boyfriend and his best friend. Make sure the other guy really likes and cares about you too!
But if I were you, I would go for the one that I care most about...even if it was his best friend and even if there's a chanxe he might say no. And I would also take a break from the boyfriend to make sure you really love this guy and if he's worth your time.
GOOD LUCK! <33
♥ Always,
Maria
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