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My best friends brother


Question Posted Monday March 7 2005, 6:37 pm

Ok. I have a best friend JD who I have been hanging out with for almost a year and half.We met because at the time I was his best friends girl. Well, he fell for me and so after his best friend and I broke up, we tried dating. But it didnt work out because I felt that we grown to in the short time that we knew each other before we dated. Well, his brother, Vince, knows about me we met once and all the times that JD talked about me and always talking to me. JD has told me that he has called me all these different names because JD says that anybody who is friends with JD, Vince hates. The other day I found out that during this practice test that we had for CATS Tests, I talked to him and I started to like Vince. Before I told JD, he told me that Vince called me a dumbass and that I had disturbed him while he was sleeping, which I didnt because I was talking to my other friends that were around him, and some of my friends are his friends too. But I did finally tell JD. But thia isnt really about JD all that much except that he is the brother of the guy I like and I dont want him mad at me either. What should I do? How can I get to start liking me and maybe to go out with me?

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Additional info, added Monday March 7 2005, 7:05 pm:
Well, I didnt really like JD in the first place. I was going out with his best friend at the time and when me and Jeremy and I broke up and found out that JD liked me, I thought that I would give it shot. But come to find out, I thought of him more as a brother and that I was just on the rebound and it just so happened to be Jeremy's best friend. Well, now its been a year and a half later and for a long time we have been mutual that we are like brother and sister. Now, I like his brother, but I dont know what to do. Oh yeah I forgot to mention that JD is engaged and that hes getting married on the second of april. I am 17 years old,female, my name is Candace..

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luv2swim109 answered Monday March 7 2005, 6:42 pm:
i think you should sit him down and calmly tell him.. it will work and hopefully he will understand. no offense but umm its not a good thing to first like one guyy and then his brother. if they ever both liked you a lot they could get in a big fight. its not a good thing to get into. just flirt with this guyy and shown him that you are interested in him

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