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next year (college)
ok me and my boyfriend have almost been together for 2 years. We're both 17, i'm a junior and he's a senior. we love each other more than you could ever imagine, we rarely fight and when we do its over stupid little stuff that we run back to each other after 5 mins. he's going away to college next year. he's probably going somewhere somewhat close. this one school is like 4 hrs away though. anyways, whenever he brings the subject up, i cant help but cry. i dont know how i'm going to handle next year. we talked about this the other day and he said "i promise we will always be together, trust me when i say that" i'm just afraid of next yr and he doesnt understand why. he's graduating, im not. he'll be invited to parties, meeting new girls.. im just afraid. anyone have any advice for me? thanks ♥
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Ohhhhh sweetie! I sympathize totally.
My guy and I are both seniors, but he was planning to go to a college in Vegas and I'm staying where I am, so we'd like never see each other. Plans changed slightly, but we're still going to different colleges.
You've just gotta trust in your relationship, and trust HIM. Has he ever been untrue? No? Then you have no reason to worry. If he's loyal, I don't see any reason for you to be afraid. Of course, that doesn't mean you won't be afraid. If you want him to understand, sit him down and tell him what you just told us - he'll be invited to parties, meeting new girls, and you're just afraid... - etc.
Just tell him everything on your mind, and explain to him that at the moment a promise isn't enough. But you can't be untrusting when you two split directions or the relationship will dwindle. Trust is everything.
If he loves you, and I'm sure he does, he'll remain faithful to you while he's in college. Your problem is you need him to tell you - and show you that, and he can't necessarily. Only time can prove it to you.
If you need/want someone to talk to about this, you can IM me at SirenCytherea anytime.
I really hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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i have some just go to the mall and hang out with your friends this saturday or sometime and it should help it helped me alot!!!!!!
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all you can do is trust him and hope for the best.. things will work out the way they are supposed to, even if you guys dont stay together
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