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ok my ex b/f n i were goin out for a really long time. we broke up a few times. one time it was because my best friend told him that another guy kissed me. another guy did kiss me but she didnt give me any time to tell him myself. so he broke up with me. we ended up getting back together n together for a long time. well a few months ago we broke up for good. only problem is instead of getting over him im fallin more in more in love. well she told him that. i had gone all this time with him thinking i like someone else because i new if he new i liked him he would treat me diffrent.(i saw him do it to one of my friends) so im kinda having 2 problems here. what do i do with him and how do i act. and her im so pissed at her but i dont no if i have a right to be. o and also she told me how a few weeks ago they talked about liking each other.....and she is supposed to be my best friend....plz help!!!
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okay, this question is EXTREMLY hard. i know, almost the exact same thing happend to me, but without the bestfriend junk. okay, about him, you need to stop falling deeper because if he doesn't feel the same way, he'll tell you and it will break your heart into sooo many pieces and its really hard to recover from it. now to act, kinda act like a friend, but when ya'll are in a big group of people don't stare at him or anything, only look and pay full attention when its just you two. if you don't he'll think you're obsessed. the "bestfriend", ha. bestfriend rule NUMBER ONE..even if they do like the guy you're dating they have NO RIGHT to talk or tell him they have feelings until after all your feelings are gone for him. you have the right to be mad at her. she shouldn't tell him that someone kissed you before you get the chance because (even tho she thought it earned her major points) if the feeling isn't there, telling him bad news like that, not gonna help. and no one likes to be told by ANOTHER person, outside thier relationship that someone in it was cheating. but in this case, i'm not sure if it could count as cheating..because us girls CANNOT control guys' actions. well, i hope i helped somewhat. good luck! :)
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