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Just some help with pot please!?


Question Posted Saturday March 5 2005, 12:17 am

Alrighty, well first off...is this anonymous...Ok to my dilemas. Well see, a very pretty girl at my school wants me to try pot(even though my chance of getting closer to her is like uneaten cake infront of a fat kid), but I see almost everyone I know who does pot isn't doing that well in school. I plan to go places, but I don't know if having a good time once and while would mess that up. I dont know if just that is worth it. So do you think you could think some things to spice it up if I were to try it once? Hell, you may try to help with anything else too...?...Or if I presented it with my parents to only try it once...how do you think it would go?
Don't know if it helps-Male/15


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*ashlee* answered Saturday March 5 2005, 2:47 pm:
yes this is anonymous. lets say this. there are 10000 kids in your school, 9500 of them are smoking pot. its rediculous i know, but its 100% true. sometimes you think "oh well that person doesnt smoke look at how good their grades are and how nice they look and well they act." but the truth is, the chance of you being able to tell wether or not someone smokes pot by the way they look and be right is like a million to one. the kids you know who are doing bad and smoke weed use it as a crutch. they start doing bad, and they say "oh yea well its alright i smoke pot, thats why im doing bad" they tell themselves thats its the pot and they dont care. im not sure if im explaining this in an understandable way. i have friends who smoke three or four times a week, and are straight A students with good jobs and good cars. they are responsible people. i also have friends who smoke three or four times a week and they smell bad and dont have jobs and fail classes. but dont you see..ok act like theres no such thing as weed, people are still going to fail and go no where in life, and people are still going to succeed and do lots of great things in life. like i said people use weed as a crutch to blame their problems on, like somewhat of a scapegoat. weed is more of a permanent relaxer, it calms you down and you have fun, much like beer just without the down and you know what your doing. im not sure im making sence. so i guess the answer to your question, is try it twice. the first time doesnt always get you high so try it twice, if you dont like it, then dont do it again. but its not going to effect where you go in life unless you go way too overbord and as ive said before use it as a crutch to slack and do stupid things. also, i just remembered, when you smoke, it also gives you a little bit of a different perspective on things and life. a good perspective tho, kind of a new way to help you understand things in a calmer more laid back kind of way. but you wont understand that until you try it. oh and by the way DO NOT EVER BRING IT UP TO YOUR PARENTS. thats a BIG no no. if i was confusing at all sorry, but you can always ask again. hope i helped you out.

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