hey,
ok, i recently just told the guy I like (that likes me back) that I loved him and i didn't want to refer to him as "the guy i like that likes me back" anymore! than he wrote me back and sed that he didn't know how i could love him but he still wanted to be friends or friends with benefits and stuff. then, when i didn't cry from the letter, i thought it was just a lust thing. but that is TOTALLY not true. I'm not in LOVE with him but i do like him a whole bunch He doesn't go to my school and at first i thought that's why he wouldn't ask me to be with him. But now i'm not so sure anymore! Is there some reason he doesn't wanna be with me? and do you think everything with him will go back to how it was before all of the email stuff?? PLEASE help ME!!! :-[
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sadisticfreak42 answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 9:00 pm: i think that if he is a good guy (and he better be if you <3 him) than he will see the beauty in you and stick around. Love is a mysterious thing that no one really understands until it hurts from the pain. depending on how often you see him, maybe you shouldn't email him so much. I mean, think about it from his POV, how would you feel if some person you considared a friend told you that he loved you in an email... sure, you probably feel flattered, but at the same time uncomfortable, no? the only thing i can say for you to do is nothing. you really shouldn't email him anymore about the topic, you should pretend it never happened and not press it. and on a later date after it has blown over, you should talk to him in person about it.
p.s. I am not really sure how old you are... and that is probably a factor depending on his age... so i generalized it a bit. =] [ sadisticfreak42's advice column | Ask sadisticfreak42 A Question ]
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