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Hey Tara...i have a question for you...what do you do when your "best friend" has pushed you too far? i mean...my "best friend" and i have known each other for as long as i can remember...and starting about 4th grade our friendship has kind of been off and on. last year and this year we have been back on and i was thinking...ya know...maybe it'll last this time...but nope...i invited her to come on spring break with me months ago. and then...i asked her yesterday if she was allowed to...and she said "no i dont think my mom will let me" then she writes in her xanga that shes going somewhere else with someone else...i dunno what the heck to do anymore! blah i just wanna scream...should i talk to her...forgive her...or just quit being a friend?
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what did she do to "push you too far?" i dont understand that. ok so if your friendship is on-again-off-again.. well thats not really a best-friend type of friendship. maybe she didnt think it was official when you asked her so many months in advance. and when she was asked by another friend, she agreed. she probably said her mom wouldnt let her because she needed time to think about how to break the news to you. i mean, she probably had already agreed to another friend. i would talk to her. tell her how you feel. i wouldn't quit being her friend because it's kind of a silly matter to quit being someones friend over. i mean, "you won't come to spring break with me so i won't be your friend anymore." sounds kind of juvenile and elementary school, doesn't it?
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