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ok, so i went out with this guy over winter break and i thought things were goin really well. we'd stay on the phone for like 3 hours just tellin eachother how much we loved eachother. then one day he broke up with me and i was like totally devastated. but when school started up again, we went out again. but this was for like 2 days. n he told me it was because it was too hard goin out with someone in his bro's grade( freshman, and im a girl so thats even better! ), but he still really liked me and wanted to be friends. well ive been trying my best to salvage at least a friendship with this guy cuz he means almost everything to me,and he doesnt even seem to want to be friends anymore. i mean im trying my best here and i feel that since it was his idea to stay friends if he even likes me 1/25 of 1% of what he used to.. he needs to put some effort into it cuz i dont think i should be the one trying this hard. and its been 2 mos since we broke up but no matter what i tell myself or my very caring friends tell me, i still like him. what should i do? should i give up on him or try to talk to him?
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Ok i never delt with this before but i think you should do out of school activities with him but not alone. If you still like him don't put too much effort into showing it. This is sumthing that will take time. For a while just talk to him about normal friend stuff nothing having to do with going out again or any hints of it. Just try 2 do activities that will make him see that all u wanna do is be friends and still hang with him like u used to. I hope this helped if not im sorry. Keep me posted
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