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brother=tears


Question Posted Tuesday March 1 2005, 4:52 pm

okay, well, my family is one of those families that was so close it was smothering. then last august,my parents got divorced. and i had no strong father figure in my life. he moved away with his gf and i see him maybe every other weekend. my oldest brother adam, 21, decided that my mom needed him, so he, and his wife and his 2 year old son moved in with us. adam was my mentor, and my greatest joy. adam later moved out and let my mom take care of me and mike (brother, 16) alone. well, adam and i stayed close, but not as close as we used to be. then on december 26, 2004, adam and his wife were going to the movies, and hit ice on the road. flipped their car... and adam suffered from severve brain damage. adam never would wake up. adam would have been a vegetable. (being the religeous person i am) i prayed for him non-stop for 8 days.. then on january 3, they told me that adam, would be a vegetable, and they were gona pull the plug. i held that boy in my arms, until he was gone. my family is a shell of it's former self. i am lost in my own home. alone, i cry every night. i need advice. im not quite sure what im asking. i just want to know that eventually this will be okay.
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FlaWlessMonoLith answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 6:57 pm:
im not sure how to answer this question but i think everything will be ok and i think that you will eventually get over it if it happened just recently then it might take a little while but you will get used to it but dont forget him that would be bad think about all the good times and memories you had

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