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OK i'm 13 and live in a place that has a very large gay community. My family has many gay friends and I am surrounded by people that support things like this. Anyways a couple of days ago I started to think about kissing a girl. (I just had this "feeling" almost like how i feel when I think about haveing my first kiss) just any girl and it didn't seem gross to me or anything. It's not like I have an attraction to any girl at school, but could I be bisexual? Or is it just me? Also how do you think it could change my relationship with a guy? PLEASE help, I'm so damn confused!!!!
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Well, you don't have to have an attraction to ANYONE in order to be straight, bisexual, or gay. As you probably know, lesbians aren't automatically attracted to every woman they see. That's fine and natural.
It's also okay to be thinking about kissing girls. Yes, it means you might be bisexual or a lesbian. As to how that affects relationships with guys, that's up to you.
The majority of bisexual people are just like anyone else - they fall in love with someone and make a committment to them. It doesn't matter whether that person is male or female. In this way, whoever you were with would get all of you - but it would still be important to let them know you were bisexual. After all, you want to be with someone who likes you for who you are.
Some bisexual people do choose to date more than one person at the same time. Some people feel they are not satisfied by only one gender - just like some straight people are not satisfied to be with only one person. That's totally up to you, the individual.
At the end of the day it's about what makes you feel happiest. It can be frustrating to not fully understand your sexuality, but all that ultimately matters is that you find someone to like who likes you back. That could be a boy or girl, and either is fine.
Take some time to think about people as individuals rather than as male or female, and see where your heart and mind lead you. Best of luck.
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