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I guess I'll never get to call you mine..
Theres a guy I like and he has a gf and he seems really happy. I wanna be happy for him because hes one of my best friends, but...I cant because I have a crush on him. And I just found out he has a gf and Im really sad, and im getting all teary eyed right now. I want to tell him that I like him but i dont want to interfear or anything. please help me get over him or at least help me to tell him...
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you should tell him. otherwise you'll regret it later tell him and ask if he feels the same way about u anf if he does..good if he doesnt..time goes on
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you need to try to be friends with his girlfreind. if you can be freinds with her you can talk about him all the time with her and maybe she will tell him that you have a huge crush on him!
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Almost everyone goes through this. When I did it was hard for the first few days. But sit back and think. Would I rather see him happy with her or ruin their relationship? The answer is probably the first one. Next off you should tell him that he'll always have you as a shoulder to lean on. If he wants to expand on that tell him you like him. Don't worry you will get over him some day. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
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Just call him up one day and be like hey you i really like you but i am so scared of what you think and i just wanted you to know! hope i helped...
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I know how you feel. I just got over the same thing. What I did is I told him that I didn't want to mess with his love life but I just thought that he should know that I liked him. Also i wasn't just telling him that so that he would break up with his gf but just so he would know if later on he wanted to go out with me. It turend out that he liked me also, and his gf dumped him a week later. He has asked me out though and I am going to tell him yes. So just try that. Also let him know that you don't want that to mess up your friendship or anything you just wanted to get that out in the open. Trust me you will feel a lot better. If things don't work out for you then I know that you will find a better guy later on down the road. it might take awhile but he will show up. keep your eye open and don't go for just the hot ones(the geeks are always the best bfs ever trust me I've gone out with plenty of them). I hope I have helped you out.
Laura Beth
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This must really be hard on you. Well, theres a few options you have, either you can tell him your feelings, (yes, I may sound insane, but heres why it could be a good option.) and you sould probably tell him because he might feel the same way, if he doesn't, at least he will know that its not a good idea to bring his girlfriend around. And you can tell him, like this, "look, I've been thinking for the past few days, and ever since you've had this new girlfriend, I wanna feel happy for you, I really wanted to, but inside of me, I was pretending to be happy. This is really hard to say, but I feel like I want to be more than just your best friend." He'll get it after that, it will be hard, I know, but you can practice in the mirror, and tell yourself inside to be strong, and keep repeating it. And your option of getting over him, the only way to get over someone is to not be around them, so I think you know what you need to do if you're wanting to take that option. Now, which ever option you take, I would be really honered to help guide you through it, just tell me who you are and what situation you are in, describe it, and I would be really glad to help you. Just tell me in my inbox.
-TheTeenGirl
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well you might want to wait and see if they breakup but that might take a long time and might not work, ecspeically if he doesn't like you like that. the thing to do is look for other guys... this way you will keep a best friend and you get the chance to find a good bf.
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