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I wish he was mine!
Hey im 14and have never had a b/f and i really like this boy at school. But i go to a school where if anything happens everyone will kno in 5 minutes. This kid i like is real popular and im not really. In 6th grade we would hang out alot but now im in 8th and we dont talk that much. I want to tel him i like him but i dont kno if i should. Then if i did everyone in school would kno and i waould be the lauging stock in the school for like someone way more popular than me. I was gonna have my friend tell him for me but i was then having second thoughts. I dont kno what do do please help!!!
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If you and the guy you like use to talk a lot in 6th grade, that was prolly before people your age starting seein things as "oh were more popular than you" It wasnt like that in 6th but each year it gets worse. Not school, but how people judge people. Just let it go. Its not worth being the laughing stock over some guy who barely even talks to you now. And more than likely even if you did date him it wouldnt be worth tryin cause guys come and go so quick because their mean.
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Don't worry at all about wat other people are going to think. Liking people is normal and no one is going to critsize your fot hat. And if anyone does, they honestly have nothing better to do with their lyke than things lyke that-you can let them know that too. Get his # or screen name and tell him you sorta have a crush on him and you don't want the whole school to know so ask him not to tell anyone. After that say we shud goto the movies this weekend and hang out or sumthin to see if he lykes the idea (which means hes most lykely into you).
Good luck, x0x Jordy|♥
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Okay, first off.... If you don't want the kids at school to know, why the HELL did you post this here? I mean seriously, are you using your head properly? Second, you guys are what, 14? So for me, it's like "BLAH" High school realtionships don't last that long, kid. I've had few relationships, which means, I haven't been sticking with the first one. Why? Because some guys are idiots. If you were a senior in High school, then I'd let you go. But c'mon. You're just a beginning teen. Don't think too much about relationships. Just... go with the flow, man. Don't think too hard. Your brain might blow up... If you had any. I mean seriously, why did you post this HERE!?
~Sam
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Whatever you do, dont send your friends to do your dirty work. Your supposed to be the one to tell someone that you like them on your own, than the guy would know that you have confidence in yourself and guys like that. If you approach him in school more often and attempt to get into casual conversations, then you and him would get to be more comfortable with eachother. Then when you two get to know eachother more, and if you still like him, then you can tell him how you feel. It'd be easier that way.
Go and get your man...!! ;)
sammie
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If you want to get into a relationship, the one thing to remember is never get a friend to tell a guy that you like him. I've gone through that situation once or twice and it never works out-it actually spreads the word faster than it would if you told him yourself. If you really like this guy, try talking to him and get to know him a little better.When your ready, try flirting. If he flirts back, you'll know that he's interested. Don't rush into relationships-its always better to be friends with the guy first. This rules out "awkwardness" when you start going out.
I know that "popularity" is a pretty big thing, but its not that those oh so cute and hot and fine guys are only reserved for the popular girls. Remember, guys love girls with confidence. (but be confident, not cocky) Kids can be immature in 8th grade-and its true that things might not go the way you want it to go and others will laugh...but i can tell you right now that I'd rather gather my courage and tell my dream guy that i like him than regret not ever making a move. I hope this helps-good luck.
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