Question Posted Wednesday February 23 2005, 7:25 pm
ok i have this friend and she is a really good friend but lately she has been really mean to me. she always ditches me and acts like she doesnt want to be around me she even tells me that. i do nothing to her but she is so mean to me, i just dont know what to do. :'(
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? natalieANDjane answered Thursday February 24 2005, 9:15 pm: Well I guess I'm not the best person to be answering this because I've been like this to some people in the recent past (which I regret a LOT) So Natalie can add advice to this one. I'd say she's probably just meeting new people and experimenting around, which can be hurtful, I understand. It's not a very nice thing for her to do, but there isn't a lot you can do. Just try (I know its tough) to deal with the way she is, because it's hard to change the way someone thinks and acts. Good luck! Sorry I couldn't help very much.
.*Jane
I can relate to how you feel, and it is hard to deal with. The only thing i can ever do is just let it go. Say hi to the person more often and talk to them more. You can even talk to the person about how you used to always have fun together. Try to remind them how much you like being their friend and how they mean alot to you. If they ditch you then try to let it go. Like Janey said, you can't really change the person.. i'm sorry.
.*Natalie [ natalieANDjane's advice column | Ask natalieANDjane A Question ]
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