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why does it bother me so much when i told him too...
There is this guy i met, when i first met him i liked him so much and then he started liking me too and i was really happy...honest to god, he is EVERYTHING i have ever asked god for..hes PERFECT , hes more than perfect, I just cant explain it....and well now...he just doesnt mean anything to me, its been about 2 weeks and he just doesnt mean anything to me more than a friend. hes only my friend, he likes me SO MUCH that hes changeing his entire schedual just to hang out with me and stuff and its awesome, only i dont like him and hes PERFECT...i dont know what wrong with me!!!!! and just tonight he asked if i keep a guard up so i dont get hurt...and i told him i do, becaue i DO and he told me that he doesnt have one, since he met me it just went down, and he has so many feelings for me its scaring him, and so yeah...i told him that he should not think of me so much maybe itll build his guard back up and he agreed and he said hes not gonna call me anymore and hes not gonna think of me as much, but then he said hes not dating anyone...just because i mean so much to him...and what id ont get is that he doesnt mean anything to me anymore than just a friend....and im REALLY upset about this...i was crying just a few minutes ago and i dont understand why it bothers me so much?! help!! :(
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Truthfully I tihnk you do like him or atleast somthing in you does. But if you insist just dont talk to him as much or go out with him and see what happens. You decide but waiting is just going to make it wrose.
<3always diane ps. if you need me just drop one in my inbox!
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sometimes you dont know how to apreciate what you have, wait untill you lose it, you will wish you can have it back, by then it will be too late.....
look deep into yourself and ask what does he means to you...
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Well, things like that happen. If you really care about this guy, you need to tell him flat out that you only see him as a friend. It seems to me like your just beating around the bush. If he's looking for a more serious relationship than you are, he's going to end up getting hurt worse than he will if you tell him the truth. Truth being: you only like him as a friend. Tell him how you feel about the whole thing. Yeah, its probably going to hurt him, but this way he won't get more attached than he is now, and he'll learn to let you go and move on. No more pain for anyone. Ya'll can still remain friends. It'd just take time...
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