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Question Posted Monday February 21 2005, 10:37 pm

okay this question is for the guys.. well i have this bf and yes we really like eachother but hes a kinda shy guy and what i mean by that is that we arent really very close very often.. so i was just wondering would me kinda being all over him (like grab his hand and be close to hima nd rub up against him, the little things) every now and then help him warm up to me and maybe get a little bit more on the touchy feely side.. i mean i dont want to do anything stupid to make him wonder why hes going out with me but i want him to get used to being closer, and i wasnt sure if it would seem right since i am the girl and i would be making the moves.. well give me some of your GREAT advice! pleeeaaasssee! <3 -always- Sbeth

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BooDog answered Monday February 21 2005, 11:00 pm:
You definitely have the right idea. He might run if you get to agressive, too fast. (And to him, too agressive would be normal pace for some, even a slow pace for others.)

But, more important, is that if you are moving too fast, he may not tell you due to his shyness; so you MUST pay attention to his body language. If you go for his hand, and he pulls back, don't force the issue. try something even more subtle. Putting your head on his shoulder may be a good place to start. Just take it as slow as possible. No, wait . . . slower than that. ;-)

BooDog (A Male Dog)
Abilene, TX

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IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Monday February 21 2005, 10:54 pm:
I know im not a guy.. but i can help you with this. Yes, that is a great idea it shows him how you care for him and will make him more comftorable with you.
&hearts; Michelle

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