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Question Posted Monday February 21 2005, 3:54 pm

well..i have liked this guy for 4 years and he has liked me off and on but he finally asked me out over the summer, we were going out for like a few months, but then he broke up with me. i never stopped liking him and now he likes me again and we are talking about bein together again, but at school he doesnt talk to me that much and he flirts with a lot of other girls and it hurts me to have to see that and sometimes it pisses me off. He really confuses me!! one time he says this one guy who flirts with me all the time makes him jealous but then he tells me that he wouldnt care if i went and had sex with some guy. soo i am really confused right now and i don't know if i should tell him to forget it or if he actually does care?

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shortiebebe021 answered Monday February 21 2005, 4:02 pm:
that is weird. there are a few reasons for this..
1) maybe he really was jealous of this other guy flirting with you so that's why he goes off flirting with other girls and not really talking to you. and then the reason he said that he didn't care if you had sex with another guy was maybe he wanted you to think he was a good person or something, letting you do that. but that is pretty strange though...
2) well he may like you but he also likes other girls too. he wants himself to seem available. and when he told you about the sex thing, he actually really didn't care that much because he likes other girls too.
3) he probably isn't sure he really wants to go out with you agian. he still likes you but he isn't sure what to do, so he ends up flirting with other girls. then about the sex thing, maybe he didn't mean it, maybe he was just saying it to sound defensive to himself or something.
i think you should talk to him and ask him waht you jsut asked me. tell him that he's confusing you and that if he doesn't start paying attention to you more or w.e then you're just going to forget it, because it's not worth it. i don't know if he actually cares, but after you talk it out, you should find out. good luck!!

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