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hey hell heart, im the 16/f ...you answered one of my questions teh other day about all of teh guys like coming to me for advice..well one of those guys i am really close to . ...and when i mean close we do stuff together as a couple we just dont call each other boyfriend a g/f..and what i mean by do stuff we are together every weeknd friday nights i always sta with his sister and we goof off and then on saurday night we go out to eat and come back to my hous eto watch movies..we hold hands and everything.. and even a few months ago after a football game i was staying at his siter house and we ended up going to liek 3rd base... and when im aroudn other guys or teh other guys ask me for advice he acts jealous. but heres teh catch last year around teh first of oct. i told him how i felt about him..and at the time we werent thta close and he didnt act o jealous. his response was we are to good of friends and i cant stand teh thought of losing you if somthign happend and we broke up...sinc ethen we have grown closer... please help !!!
aM*(a.k.a.cuddle_bunny07)
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Sorry it took me awhile, I haven't had internet access :/
So you don't know what to do with this guy...I'm guessing you really like this guy, and want to have a relationship, but are afraid of what he says if you ask? And there are a couple of other problems here that should be addressed.
Firstly, the easier problem...his jealousy. Since you've been to third base you both like each other "in that way." My suggestion would be to be honest about how you feel about guys going to you for advice, how they always go for advice but never look at you as a possible person for a relationship, and how that really hurts you. Chances are he'll understand and, if he likes you enough, he may try to give you the love you seek. This is far from a guarantee, but at the very least he won't be so jealous because he knows it bugs you, you don't really *want* to be with these guys, they just kinda come to you all the time :x
The whole "we're good friends and I don't want to lose you" thing can range from total bullshit to total honesty based on what they've experienced before. Back then he might not have thought of you as someone for a viable relationship. Even now, he may insist on "friends with benefits," which is not something you'd be happy with from what I can see. If you want to make this serious, I suggest talking to him about the fact that you're already behaving like a bf and gf, and so this is more a relationship than a friendship. If he's okay with it, you're pretty much set, well until something happens anyway *grins*.
Hope I helped, I'll answer any further questions more quickly next time :x
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