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well see my brother and sister are both in college *my sister is a senior,my brother is a junior* and ive been REALLY REALLY missing them..now that they are in college im the only kid at home and i hate it sooo much! some ppl say that i need to get over it and not worry about them..but i cant help it i truley miss them like woah!!! i also have these awful dreams about ppl in my family dying..i always wake up crying and my mom tells me not to worry about it *cause i always going into her room at night and cry my eyes out* but i really cant help it..shes suggested going to the doctor about it..but i dont know if i want to..help?
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You obviously spent a lot of time with them when they were home instead of at college, so they probably would love talking to you; the advice above is really good for that.
Although I'm not sure, your missing them most likely stems from the fact that they were the only people you really trusted, or they were the people you spent the majority of your time with. They left a void in your life that you have yet to fill, and you're missing them badly because of it.
The best way to solve this, if you can't talk to them or simply talking doesn't do enough because they're more distant or whatever, is to have someone else step in their place. If they were the only people you trusted, and you really don't want to see a psychologist, you can always just talk to me, since I'm always online, and I never judge ;) . If you just spent a lot of time with them, it's harder to fill that...you need to find more or closer friends, and start doing things with them more often. The relationship may not be as strong, but the important thing is that you feel wanted, and that you have people you do stuff with.
Try the advice from the user above, and take further steps if that isn't enough...
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