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my homie's in jail
one of my good friends aint gettin out of jail for a long time. its really hard for me becuz hes not the criminal type of brother, but hes always been so kind so sweet and i wanna know why hes locked up for tha next 2 yrs. tha first yr, which was last yr was struggled through and i was hopin he would get out. but he not. and i cant go seem him becuz i have no ride i dont no where it is, and i dont no what to say when iget there. its just all messed up and writin letters that hes neva gonna get aint exactly easy for me. i only got one letter from him last yr. and i still keep it. i just dont no what to do now. can somebody help me cause ifeel like crying for him. sometimes
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I personally dont feel bad for scum of the earth and you shouldnt either. Im happy hes locked up, hes in a good place now, you ever view it like that? I prefer for them to be dead instead of jail but tahts just my destroy all idiots sorta attitude taking over there. Dont cry for him, hes a piece of crap. Why cry for someone that got put in jail?
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No one can help you until you help yourself, by realizing it's not your fault that he's in jail, and while I'm sure he appreciates your empathy, I don't think he wants you depressing yourself over his problems. He obvioulsy made a mistake, and now he's paying the consequences. That doens't mean that he isn't "kinda and sweet" though. Everybody makes mistakes, and I think it's really great you are writing him letters. If he knows that he has people who care about him, it will be a lot easier for him to get his life straight.
I really think you should try and go see him. I think it would good for you, so that you can see how he is doing, and maybe it would set your mind at ease a little. I know this may not be possible though.
Whatever happens don't give up on your friend, i'm sure he needs you just as much as you need him.
- miLKCARTon08
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well try askin a parent or another family memeber to take you down there to see him. Im sure someone will take you. I mean he is your brother and it sounds like you really love him and need to see him. He is your brother, what do people expect. Family members need to stay close when bad things happen, and need to help each other feel better. Wel this is something bad, and your other family memebers should try to do whatever they can to make you feel better. Tell them all you want to do is see him and talk to him. Im sure they will understand.
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I would try to send him a letter at least. I'm sure that he would feel great if somone did that. I'm not sure what else you could do. Just be happy and try to think of the good times you've had.
hope I helped
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