Hi, I have a question. I am a little upset that a sister of mine does not share what's going on in her life with me. I have to hear everything from the grapevine. See, we don't live together, and we talk on-line once in a while, but she has stopped saying hello to me and I am always making the first move...she doesn't even call anymore to say hi. Hope you can help. Thanks.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? XxLiiLSiiNgErXX answered Sunday February 13 2005, 11:23 am: wow, If I didnt know any better I'd say that you were MY older sister... only shes overreactant and so i bet that ur not her...Anyway... Talk to her and ask her whats up.. tell her that you want to get more in on her life.. tell her flat out.. but not in a mean intimidating way. Ask her about stuff at school... no matter how long it takes talk to her... It'll all come out sooner or later. Believe me... My older sister did a lot of work with me on this one. Just get more involved with her any way that you can. And if u live close enough to her rather than on the other side of the country like mine does, then take her out somewhere.. forl ike a bite to eat or something or a walk. Build up trust with her so that she will feel comfortable enough to share her life with you... remember.. trust comes before anything! Hope I could Help!
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