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i like a guy but we're not over out ex's......i need someone


Question Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 6:49 pm

okay...here goes....i'm 15..female...he is 14....i kinda like this guy..and he kinda likes me...but i love my ex....and he isn't over his....so niether of us are ready for a relationship....but i really like him...so i decided that i might ask him to be my valentine...now i am having doubts...because i haven't exactly been that trustworthy....so i think he may be mad at me....plus i also just had another fight with my ex....so i'm upset about that...so i don't know if i should ask him to be mine on vday....i already have the card...now i'm just debating on wether to give it to him...i don't want to be lonely...but i don't want to push him or get too involved just yet in a serious relationship...help :\?

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justsomeotherguy answered Thursday February 10 2005, 10:36 pm:
You like you ex, and your ex likes you, but you're both not over you other ex's, and some other dude likes you....wow...look at the mess you've made...well...first question to ask yourself is...why didn't it work out between you...you mentioned trustworthy-ness, ouch, that's a tuffy..well..personally, i just say..wait and see what happens, but if i were you...i'd give him the card, but it depends what it has in it, normally ex's will still have some sort of feeling for each other, no matter how long ago it was..so just give him the card...she how he reacts, and about getting over other ex's, that'll happen in time...and if the ex that you love is trustworthy you think, go out with him....the new guy....eh...just see what happens...i guess sepnd some time with him...play it out, test the water, see how you feel about him..

hope this helps somewhat,
Stephen

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