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Keep it like friends or go further?
okay this may be long but i dont kno...
here it goes..i have this guy friend that likes me. but the thing is....well, i used to go out with his best friend, but his best friend was the one that broke up with me. for the past month me and my guy friend have been hanging out a lot and we are interested in the same things kind of...but we DO have our differences. he wrote me a letter today..when i read it, he told me in the letter that he kind of liked me and that he didnt kno if he should like me more cuz of the fact that he didnt kno how i felt about him and also becuz im still stuck on that last relationship a lil bit. im so afraid to go into another relationship knoing that its soon going to end. why do relationships have to be so limited? I hate it. i just want to give up...but i dont kno what to do....i dont know what to think. i also dont want to hurt one of my friends (even tho i am really mad at her). she still likes him and i dont want to hurt her.
i really dont kno what to do...
sweetheart
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hm, relationships are only as limited as you allow, haha, what i MEAN is, well, example first, ha, if you keep putting pressure and weight on an object, it will give sooner or later, it will break, like...if you put tons of pressure and labels on your relationship, it will most likely NOT last, :) right now i'm in love with a wonderful girl and she knows EXACTLY who she is, and anyone who knows me will tell you that i'm VERY against the high school love thing haha, but idk, once you find it...you just find it, right? haha, annnnnywayyyyys!...we decided to not label it as "going out" or w/e, because that puts extra pressure and limitation on it that's not exactly needed...kinda...unnecessary...but we treat each other as and think of each other as a bf/gf type thing, haha, and things couldn't be BETTER, so...this might not be the BEST advice out there, but maybe...i'm trying to teach by example...? idk haha good luck :)
-Kyle
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