Question Posted Wednesday February 9 2005, 9:03 pm
why do people always leave me when i need them the most? i know im there for them if they need me, but its not mutual. and its not just all in my head because they say things like "i never want to talk to you again" or "i dont have time for your drama." and i think what hurts most is that my ex boyfriend... who was my best friend is one of them. how can someone profess their love to you one day and then hate you the next? im getting older... ill be 18 soon and i feel like i dont have very many people that i can trust or even call my friend. any suggestions on if i should say something to them or not? and if i should say something... what should it be?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? hiddenmeaning answered Wednesday February 9 2005, 11:29 pm: my only adivice is be honest. I know that I dont care when someone is honest with me wether I agree or not. I sometimes feel like no one cares about me, so I found it was easier to not expect n e one to care. You are in highschool and the bottom line is you prolly wont see very many of your "friends" for long after that. I know it seems horrible but the friends I had last year that graduated i hardly ever talk to. Its all part of growing up. And as for your boyfriend. I know a guy in the sam situation who is being mean to his ex and all the same stuff and I call him a jerk and an ass for doing it to. Its not right but its how guys act. I dunno if this helped you or not, if you want to talk mor efeel free to ask! [ hiddenmeaning's advice column | Ask hiddenmeaning A Question ]
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